Oh my god! How dare those trolls call your book a waste of
time and money? Did he know the hardships you’ve been through in publishing it?
Did she know the sacrifices that you have to make just to put the story on
paper?
To tell you the truth, they don’t really know. And there’s
no use fuming here like a volcano waiting to explode from disappointment and
perhaps a little (or maybe too much) anger because you can’t do anything to
stop negative reviews. All that’s left for you to do is to handle these things
in a professional and less stressful manner.
So, cool your hooves and check out these techniques on how
to get a grip when it comes to negative reviews. Who knows, you might be able
to shake them off as you move on from the experience. Okay, breathe deep and
read along.
Put things in the right perspective.
With the way
you're feeling right now, chocolates won’t do the trick. Exercise might help in
letting off some steam. But you know what’s more effective? You just have to
put things into a different light. Don’t put too much weight on the negative
comments. Consider the ratio of negative and positive reviews, then get the average.
Does it favor your book? Do you have a 50:1 review ratio where there is 1
negative review in every 50 reviews? If that’s the case, it’s just a matter of
perspective; look in the brighter side of things.
Keep calm and don’t go to war.
Breathe in
and breathe deeply. Don’t fight fire with fire, instead take out the
extinguisher. But what can you do when your blood rises to the thought of a bad
review? Well, you don’t have to look at the bad reviews. You can just skim
through what it says and don’t take it personally. Remember that the reviewer
or the reader is attacking the book or the story and not you as an author.
So, if you
think it’s a legitimate review, keep them as points for improvement. Take it as
constructive criticism and thank them for making you a better writer. But if you think the
reviews are just there to drag you down without the proper evidence (you know
what I mean), then ignore them completely and move on.
Hard fact:
you can’t please everyone. It’s just impossible to make everyone like you.
Therefore, you just have to think of your publishing journey as a business venture. See your book as
your product while you become a business owner. And you know what entrepreneurs
do?
Every time
they have a customer complaining, they don’t take everything personally. Yes,
they always try to make everything okay in the end. But if bad gets to worse
and they have to let go of that customer, then they do so without any regret.
Even if they can’t please all the people, at least they know how to please all
the RIGHT people.
Feed the
negative reviews to the piranhas.
It might be
a little underhanded but it’s better to let your loyal followers fight back
with the negative reviews, especially the unfounded ones. Of course, they will
eventually read what the reviewers are saying and there’s a possibility that it
might spark a war – hopefully not literally. And it’s better not to be caught
in the crossfire. What you should do is to keep your mouth shut. Let them do
the talking for you. But if they’re crossing the line, please let them know
that you don’t want to cause any uprising and ask them to move on. Oh, before I
forget, please let them know that you appreciate their love and support though.
Get in
touch with your support group.
Nope, I
don’t mean you have to go to meetings and stuff. All you have to do is call
your family and closest friends. You can invite them over for some lunch or
dinner. Share a glass of wine and talk to them about your frustrations. Trust
me, they will listen as you pour your heart out. Afterward, when you’ve
discarded all the bad vibes from yourself, it’s your time to listen to their
comforting words. Let their love and care support you in dealing with these bad
reviews.
Shake it
off and move on.
If you can’t
take it anymore, then there’s only one solution left. All you have to do is
print out all the negative comments about your book and light them. This will
symbolize that you're getting rid of all the effects they have on you. And that
you're ready to move on and face other challenges along the way to publishing
success. Just be careful not to burn the house or any furniture down with the
negative reviews, okay?
There you go!
The techniques on how you can handle the negative reviews about your
book. Consider them as your own personal therapy whenever you deal with these
things. And don’t forget to share them to others who are facing the same kind
of trouble as you. Cheers to a more successful future!
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share what you think?
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